Would of, Could of, Should of
I have found as my years of wisdom have accumulated, there
can be no “what-ifs”. Today would have
been my 40th Wedding Anniversary, if my husband had survived. As it were, we had 33 years of marriage. There are many "would of, could of and
should of" feelings that arise when you lose someone so suddenly. We had 9 months to prepare, but that isn’t
really long enough to do or say what you really want to do or say. There is much numbness in the anticipation of
an impending death. Acceptance of the
situation brings about peace. If I go
back and consider the “what-ifs” it just introduces scenarios that weren’t
meant to be. God’s plan has a purpose. We had three beautiful children and thirty-three
years as a family. I reside in that fact.
Tammy Harvey
Married to Jerry Harvey on May 25, 1985
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