Memories of my Grandfather
Howard Clarence Langston was my mother’s father, my maternal
grandfather. He was born on February 9, 1906,
and lived to be 74 years old. I was only
20 years old when he passed away, June 12, 1980. Father’s Day was June 15 that year. I’ll always remember how his funeral was so
close to the day dedicated to fathers.
He died of a fatal stroke in his kitchen during the wee hours of the night
after returning from the outhouse. I
would like my grandchildren to know a little about him and thus I am recording
my fond memories of him.
He was born and
raised in Strawberry Plains, Tennessee. He
was a carpenter. He built houses
including his own and the home for my mother and father when they were married.
He gave them a corner of his property for their new home to start their lives
together. When I was born, we lived in
that home. That home, in fact, became
rental property for approximately 60 years after my parents moved to Knoxville.
It was 810 square feet with 2 bedrooms
and one bathroom on a lot slightly larger than a half-acre. We ultimately sold
it in 2023. An aside story about that house is the fact that a thorny pasture
field was all that separated it from my grandparents’ house. When we were small my mother would lift us
over the barbed-wire fence and send us off to my grandmother waiting on the
other side of the pasture field. They could
both watch us safely depart and arrive for a welcoming visit with my
grandmother. As my grandmother told the
story, when my sister, only 18 months older than myself, would encounter her
first brier prick she would turn around and run back crying to our mother. On the other hand, I would push through all
the briers and arrive at my grandmother’s embrace with scratched up legs!
My grandfather was a painter. Even though he was color blind, he painted
interiors and exteriors. He would return
home from a day of painting and go behind the garage to clean his paintbrushes. The wall faced the wooded area of his
property that no one sees. There he
would rinse the brush and paint the side of the garage until the brush came out
clean. There was a “mural” of colors on
the back side of that garage. He had
built that particular garage for my mother to keep her car in. She lived with them when my father was in the
army in Korea.
He was limber. I remember he could sit crisscross and then stand up on his knees and walk. He challenged us to do the same. He always wore high back bib overalls. Every day he wore Liberty (Big Smith) denim overalls, except on Sundays. On Sundays he wore a shirt and pants and a Homberg style hat. He always drove a Chevy pickup truck with a straight shift. It had to be a Chevrolet, with a step side. I remember riding to church sitting in the middle between my grandmother and him while he shifted gears. I think his shifter was on the steering column.
He was a man of God.
He said grace before every meal.
He got up early to tend to the woodstove which heated the house. In the early hours, he sat in the corner next
to the stove reading his Bible every day.
He didn’t believe in modern luxuries.
They had no heat or air conditioning.
They had gotten indoor plumbing, but he refused to use the indoor
toilet. He always went to the outhouse,
even if it was in the middle of the night.
He never wasted city water either. Water was a commodity that was costly
and he treated it like gold. His house
was unique as it sat right on the county line between Sevier County and Jefferson
County. He ate meals in Jefferson County and slept in Sevier County.
He would sit down with an apple and pull out his
pocketknife. I was always in awe of how
he carefully peeled the apple in one continuous spiral without breaking the
peel. He would then slice off pieces of
the apple and eat them right off the knife’s blade.
He had a sense of humor.
He liked to tell us funny stories and make jokes which irritated my
grandmother. She fed him three square
meals a day. For breakfast, he always
had two poached eggs and toast. She
prepared a hot lunch and then served the leftovers for dinner. He would come home for lunch most of the time
when he was painting. Otherwise, he carried a metal lunchbox, the rectangular kind with the domed lid for the thermos.
On occasion, he took us to the local gas station, Underwood
& Petty at 804 Asheville Hwy in Strawberry Plains, TN. He would buy us a “dope” which was a grape
soda in a glass bottle, and a moon pie.
The locals would gather there around the stove in a circle of straight-backed,
cane-bottomed chairs. They exchanged
pleasantries and news, good and bad. It
was a place he would go to “hang out” in the afternoon after his workday was
over.
Tammy Harvey
8/15/2026
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